What is tenderness? Tenderness … already in the very sound of this word-some special, deep soulfulness and secret, is it true? You feel the magical power of this word? Only the heart of a truly loving woman can be a source of such a beautiful, amazing spiritual state. Still, being at an early age, a child, to the question: “What is his mother?” – without hesitation, among the main words -” the most beautiful “,” kind “,” affectionate ” – necessarily says:” tender “, because he already knows the magical power of his mother’s tenderness. Maternal tenderness – what can be more touching and more beautiful than this feeling! However, not only children are in the need for tenderness. The heroine of the story of the Barbusa ends her last letter to his beloved, standing forever with him, words about great love and unlimited tenderness. The poetic lines of Marina Tsvetaeva are unforgettable and poetic, “where does such tenderness come from, and what to do with her ..?” – they cannot but not excite and not cause in the soul of each of us very personal memories and associations. My friend, once, congratulating me on the holiday, unexpectedly, despite the fact that he was not sentimentality, wished me tenderness. No, no, there was nothing between us and could not be-we are just colleagues, good friends … I knew a lot about his life, and suddenly realized that the reason for his break with his wife and the beginning of a relationship with another woman was the lack of tenderness in the first marriage. This simple discovery made me revise a lot and change my mind. How do we sometimes forget that our relatives, loved ones expect from us the manifestations of feelings – sincere, deep, and we, in life bustle – often buy up, are late with their manifestation, even shy, and when we begin to understand this, it happens, it happens, – it happens, – it happens. – late. Tenderness – where love, where devotion is to pain, until readiness for self -sacrifice. Tenderness – primarily dedication and complete trust. And yet … there is no tenderness! And when the third appears in the family – the baby, mother and father’s tenderness should grow! It should be enough for three so that none of these three feels deprived of ..
