The British psychoanalyst Tracy Cox made a sensational statement: according to his research, people prefer to share their sexual experiences not directly with a partner, but with friends and friends.
The psychologist interested this fact, because talking on sexual topics with a bed partner could give a lot to relations: help to reveal and realize their fantasies, discussion of unpleasant moments would give the key to the better understanding of the partner and his needs. However, a survey conducted by Kox showed that most people prefer to pour their dissatisfaction or, on the contrary, admiration, to third parties, because, in their opinion, a discussion with a partner of sex nuances will not lead to mutual understanding, but to a quarrel.
The psychologist believes that the paradox that has arisen is the reason that partners tend to forget about the words of gratitude and express only dissatisfaction, and in rather sharp tones. Cox advises to discuss the nuances of sex with the partner, but to express his complaints gently, in the form of a request. And, of course, do not forget about compliments, tender words, recognition of love. These simple actions will help restore the harmony of relations in pairs.