The main reason for the destruction of families and young couples is that women and men express their own emotions differently. Distinguish five so -called “languages” of love, otherwise – ways to expression. A well -known psychologist of the relationship between the Capena of Gory, a book was written, which is called – “5 languages of love”.The following languages of love exist: 1) “Words of praise”. For a person who has such a language of love, it is really important to feel gratitude from his second half for the work done, hear praise, compliments, words of love and recognition from loved ones.2) “Joint spending of time”. Most often, women have a similar language of love. The most important thing for a person in this case is to spend the maximum time alone with your beloved (beloved).3) “Giving gifts”. The main way of manifestation of love is to receive gifts-whether it is postcards, a bouquet of flowers or frames on the wall.4) “Service by deeds”. Such people feel their loved ones if they see help from a loved one in various “economic” issues – cleaning, washing dishes, etc. D.5) “physical touch”. Most often, this language of love is characteristic of men who feel the love of their second half through physical contact – touch, hugs, etc. In this case, men identify physical proximity to.