How to educate the best qualities of character in a little man? How in the process of education not to lose touch with your child? Here are the questions that bother many young parents. The manner of communication with the child plays a huge role in raising a child, many psychologists say. Many parents, guided by the best motives, raise children, commanding or warning, accusing or praising, moralizing, ridicurating, giving guesses, persuading or jokes. All these methods imply only the dominance of an adult over the child, but not establishing friendly contact between the parent and the child. It is important to give the child freedom for his own choice, which, if necessary, can naturally carefully adjust. The child needs to be able to listen and hear, not to leave him alone with his sorrows and problems, no matter how funny they seem to us. But this does not mean at all that you just need to console, he needs to help to understand his fears, resentment calling the problem with his name. In the future, if a similar situation arises, he himself will be able to find a solution. Tactile contact with a child can significantly increase your chances of friendships with a child. Hug him, kiss, of course, within reasonable limits, buy him what he asks, or change furniture for the children’s room. Pay him more attention. This will give the child an understanding that he is loved, that in turn will become the foundation of his inner well -being. You need to cherish in a child a sense of his own value.
