Our children sometimes actually become a real mystery even for ourselves. Agree, sometimes it’s quite difficult to understand the motive of their behavior or the reaction to any factor. Sometimes such situations arise that it seems to mom easier to understand the summer tires, having read their description than what the baby requires. By the way, according to psychologists, parents do not need to intervene in children’s games or control their actions..
This was stated by scientists from the University of Cambridge. They advise parents to refuse hyper -beams and control their children.
This leads to the fact that the child does not have such qualities as the manifestation of the initiative, the kids get used to acting in the direction, are waiting for commands to action and are not able to independently make a decision. And, as a result, having become adults, they will not be independent and resourceful, important skills will not be developed, they will not be able to bear responsibility for their decisions.
For some time, researchers observed the development of two groups of children. In the first group were children who lived in the city and were constantly under the supervision of their parents, the games were limited to the size of the playground, and walks by the mode. Children of the second group are inhabitants of the villages, whose walks and games were not controlled and did not limit themselves to territorially.
When testing these groups of children aged 12 years, they showed that children of the second group are more prone to non -traditional decisions, initiative and responsibility, t. e. With confidence we can say that they are more prepared for adulthood.