Do not deceive the children!

Do not deceive the children!

Some parents solve the problems that arise when raising a child through untruth. To tell the child that this toy will be bought another time, hoping for that he will soon forget everything, say that if he does not eat tasteless porridge, then the woman will come and bit the baby, give a promise and not fulfill it – such situations often arise. Anna Radchenko, a writer of short stories, determined the rule for herself: “Never lie to herself”. They should be guided by all people. Self -deception, like a focus of a tumor that grows over time, develops into a constant desire to solve problems with the help of fraud – this seems to be the easiest way to get rid of the unpleasant.

But what consequences will such an attitude towards themselves, surrounding people, to life? They just stop trusting you. A child who sees a certain ideal in parents, a role model, will feel your lie. Over time, he will simply stop trusting, and growing up, crosses the habit of deceiving – if adults allow themselves, then there is nothing wrong with that. When going to deceive the child, ask the question: what would you feel if you were in his place? I would like to be deceived for you? Surely no. So it is better to spend a few minutes to discuss the situation with the child and justify his position – he will understand you, the compromise will be found, and the honest, responsible and responsible person will grow out of your baby.