It is no secret that the very attitude towards the teacher affects the quality of the student’s performance, his self -esteem and the perception of the process of mastering new knowledge, on which the fate of a person largely depends on the future. Therefore, it is so important to teach the child to correctly build interpersonal relationships with his teacher and learn to avoid conflict situations arising in the process of studying.
Attitude to the teacher: representations and the real state of things
Surely, each student has in his mind the ideal image of a teacher, who, in addition to smart and educated, respects his wards, requires knowledge from them, but does not show cruelty, knows how to discharge the situation, understanding how difficult it is for students to be given its subject.
Such a school attitude to the teacher [1] on the part of the student can be called perfect. However, do not forget that the teacher is also a person, and also has his own ideas about the ideal student.
From his point of view, the student should strive for knowledge and cooperation, be open in communication with the teacher, to the best of disciplined and diligent, and also have a number of qualities.
How much such images coincide with those that we actually have? Hence the inevitable conflicts that are generated by the mismatch of desires and reality.
In the event of conflicts with teachers, try not to imagine your attitude to the teacher only in a negative light. Just understand that the teacher is also a person who, for sure, has problems in life, both everyday and professional. Perhaps not only he is to blame for the conflict between you, but you yourself.
Several principles that allow you to correctly build an attitude towards the teacher
Always remember that the teacher is not obliged to love you. He just must give you a certain baggage of knowledge. And you have to learn how to assimilate them. It is this attitude to the teacher and the learning process that will help to avoid most conflict situations.
Use the old principle: treat the teacher as you would like people to treat you yourself.
Never Yabedno Teachers at your comrades. Not only classmates, but also most teachers do not like scammers.
Never play and do not try to put the teacher in a stupid position.
Do not be afraid of the teacher and, with obvious injustice, boldly defend your rightness on his part, but be polite and correct at the same time.
If you misunderstood something, do not hesitate to ask the teacher. They like students who strive for knowledge.
Applying such principles, you probably can correctly establish relationships with the teacher and earn respect and goodwill from him.