Do not try to blame it or make fun of it!
Often, adults forget that children live in the world of imagination and fairy tales. Usually imaginary friends appear at the age of three to five years and themselves disappear to seven to nine years. No need to be scared, this phenomenon is explained by the development of imagination. This is not considered a deviation, so do not rush to drag the child to a psychologist. In communicating with an invisible friend, reflecting the problems of both the child and the whole family, take a closer look.
Causes of imaginary friends:
· Rich fantasy. No need to call it “lies”, do not kill the baby’s ability to dream. Maybe he will become a great film director…
· Loneliness. Try to pay more attention to the baby. Conversations with a fictional friend can talk about what is lonely.
· Imitation. If you listen to the “conversation” of the child, then it is quite possible to find out someone from your environment. Until you see aggression in behavior, you should not worry at all.
· Fear. Together is not so scary, so the baby comes up with a comrade. Try to talk more with your child, calm and dispel all fears.
· Fear of punishment. Perhaps you scold the child too much for his leprosy, and the baby is afraid to confess to some oversight. Be careful and softer, control your emotions.
Remember the children’s psyche is very vulnerable, and imaginary friends can give a hint how to better understand your child.