Many people ask themselves: “Is it worth a sorry for themselves?”Of course, it is believed that to regret a person, as well as to do something for him out of pity, this is in the order of things, and is even considered a noble act. But this is a huge error. As practice shows, such actions in the future are only on the entire bear service, and, in the end, those persons that you idolized will be badly treated with you.
Why this happens?
Because a person who pity, humiliates, both himself and the one who regrets.
We’ll make a reservation right away if you regret a child who hurt yourself and cries, this is considered normal, especially if you are a mother.
But if you give the last money to your negligent friend, then soon he will cease to be a friend to you. If you really want to help your friend, then you do not need to give him all your savings, but only the part that you can give him. If you look at this from the other side, helping someone out of pity, you consider a friend a flawed friend who is not able to solve his financial problems. Agree that not everyone will like the thought that you are flawed.
Chronically compassionate people are subject to frequent colds, and do not even have to talk about frequent depression. As a rule, such people have a very low immunity, and this “inner pity” develops into a habit, which is difficult to fight.