A wedding is a wonderful event that serves the beginning of family life, in truth adult relations. But many couples are frightened by such a prospect as the loss of freshness of relations, so that life will completely tighten both and everything will become very commonplace and banal. But in fact, everything is in the hands of the newlywed. After all, as they say, if there is a desire, there will be opportunities. If the couple does not want the relationship to become ordinary – they will not allow this. Several simple rules must be observed. The first is not to determine the leader in the family. It happens that the newly made husband and wife live in his or her apartment, and the one to whom this apartment belongs feels a full -fledged master and, roughly speaking, shakes the rights. This is wrong. If it is decided to create a family, live together, then you need to live in the Union. Now this apartment belongs to both. It is worth understanding this. The second rule, one of the simple, but causing a lot of disputes is the separation of responsibilities. There are not as many of them as it seems – cleaning the house, purchases, payment on bills. But this is too narrow a concept, wider and more correct – the device of everyday life and housekeeping. Since homework is the care of all family members, if you consider it in detail. The responsibilities do not always need to be divided equally, based on the state of health and the wishes of each. Someone can easily wash the floors, but it is easier for someone to wipe the dust. It is worth considering the wishes of each other, because the responsibilities should not be disconnected, they must unite, and, accordingly, you cannot do without mutual understanding. You can also distribute responsibilities in this way – there are more worries to the wife, and the most difficult to my husband. The main thing in this case is that there is no discontent, which is fraught with quarrels and resentment. If we approach the issue of housekeeping and the arrangement of life, then it may not be so insoluble and terrible. It is worth remembering that life can absorb both only when both sides attribute a bunch of minuses to this issue. In fact, everything can be done quickly and together. Prepare dinner in an hour and do a general cleaning for two, after which you can safely go to rest or walk – everything is not so scary, yes?
