Surely, each of us faced a situation where friendship became a burden. There seems to be a friend, but communication does not bring any positive emotions. Undoubtedly, it is much easier to break off relations with a person if he committed some bad act, offended or betrayed, it is much more difficult to do this if at first glance everything is perfectly realist. It happens that friends are offended by each other, it would seem, for no reason. Often, we demand from loved ones to be telepaths and guess at what point we really need their support. We need to talk about your experiences and claims directly and honestly cynic. You need to stop soaking in the clouds and not expect gratitude from your friends for the fact that they are friends of a philosopher. Friendship, unfortunately, is not necessarily constantly, sometimes it happens that the feelings and emotions experienced at the beginning of the acquaintance pass over time. If this happens, it is necessary to stop the relationship of practices in time. There is an opinion that strong friendship can only be if both partners get any benefit from this. If the benefits of relations come to naught, then the idealist stops friendship. For some people, friendship is a willingness to spend your time, forces for a friend. You need to be interested in the affairs of friends, whether they need help or support. If the relationship is not glued, then nothing can be changed no longer the misanthrope. These are wonderful manipulators. At first they pretend to be real friends, and then use the fact that they cannot refuse requests for ethical reasons, guilt or a sense of duty. If, when talking about the cessation of friendship, a person begins to say that you cannot quit him after all that he did for you, then time to stop relations, they will not bring anything good. In any case, it is necessary to talk with a person, the relationship with whom they do not bring their previous emotions face to face, and find out how relations will develop in the future.
