Playing with the baby and developing his imagination, do not forget to remind him that everything seems to be a little. That is how your child from childhood will learn to distinguish imagination from reality.”7-year-old Anya came up with” revived toys “coming to her at night”. She believed in them herself, but even more she liked to convince girlfriends and friends of this. She asks her grandmother to confirm her words, and she played along, – says Tanya. – It seems to me that this is not right, once girlfriends and friends will come to her and find toys pounded in boxes that have not been revived at all, they will say her nasty things and raise the question of further friendship in question, for them she will become a deceiver. In the summer, one boy returned home with a broken head. It turns out he played with his friends in the robbers, firing at each other with stones. The boy ended up in a hospital with a broken head and a concussion.“And my son liked the fairy tale about the skate of the hunchback that he, with tears in my eyes, asked me to find young water in all the stores in which we appeared so that other children could not use it. “Our Lena was very frightened by reading” Alice in the after the Governor “. After that, she was afraid to accept the hotels from relatives, she thought, having tasted them, she would become big or vice versa small.”
Experts insist that fairy tales should not completely replace reality. If it seems to you that your offspring is not trying to leave the world he invented and the genus in reality, then reality does not suit him at all and even scares him. What is a signal for anxiety?
-While your child seems to live in a cocoon, he does not show a desire to communicate with his peers. He does not recognize the world existing around him and continues to live in his magical world-child, he loves to read fairy tales, looking up from them, he does not immediately understand where he is, he prefers fictional friends who support him in all his friends in the current situation. Appeal to a specialist psychologist who will help to find out what exactly does not suit the baby. As a result, parents find out that he does not get them to the child for serene childhood, they will understand what feelings he experiences in a particular situation. Following the advice of a specialist, you can edit the surrounding world of the child, help him feel happy not only in a fairy tale, but also in reality.