There is an opinion that grew into a stereotype that only women want to give birth and educate children, and representatives of the strong half are not needed. Like, men feel only the need to continue their family, but everything else does not bother them.
If this was actually, then the family, in their classical perception, would not be needed. In fact, men find completely different explanations of why they are in no hurry to get the heirs. At first glance, nature itself distributed functions from which it is impossible to get rid of.
She ordered a woman to bear the baby for nine months and breastfeed him, and a man to be a defender and a minister for his wife and child. Why recently this scheme gives such frequent failures, and a man refuses to have children?
Most likely, this is temporary. In some cases, the man is not sure that the woman who is next to him will be a good mother for his child. Girlfriend – yes, a pleasant conversationalist – without a doubt, and the mother is another question. Perhaps he just did not walk up and is not ready to take responsibility for the maintenance of the family.
In some cases, a man so wants to provide his family with everything necessary that he is simply afraid of the appearance of the child, considering his upbringing with a very expensive pleasure. That’s when everything will be in the family, then you can think about children, but sometimes, having reached a stable financial situation, it’s too late to think about children.
The attitude of men to children is laid back in their childhood and largely depends on the family and the conditions where he was born, grew up and brought up. If it was a big and friendly family, then, given the experience of his parents, he will also strive to create the same. If he grew up in an incomplete family or was the only child in it, then in the future it can avoid the appearance of children and even be afraid of them.